Sounds a little kinky, but whatever. But hmmm, would I let someone tell me I couldn't get up and go to the bathroom ? I dont think so ! Nobody should have that much control in a relationship.Well, some men find that it helps them to last longer if they masturbate an hour or two before they have sex (this only works if you know you're going to be having sex later, of course). While you're having sex, if you feel close, tell your partner to slow down or decrease intensity. Take some breaks. Make sure you stimulate your partner while you're 'resting,' though. Those are my suggestions. Try them, see if they work. A lot of times premature ejaculation is just as mental as it is physical. It sounds silly but if you think to yourself, "I'm going to last longer, I'm going to last longer, I'm going to last longer," you just might last longer.It could just be that the sex is just too hot for him (in which case - kudos to you!), but he also may have trouble with premature ejaculation. You should talk to him about it. Maybe he could try some different techniques in bed. There are all kinds of options, but I have found that the best is Lexaryn. It is a pill that I take that gives me control over my orgasm and erections. It can be a really good option for male sexual performance you (he) should check it out.