Does Not Masturbating Make You Last Longer During Sex

Dear Friends: It is important for men to remember that as women grow older it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as they did when they were younger. When men notice this, they should try not to yell. Let me relate how I handle the situation. When I got laid off from my consulting job and took “early retirement” in April, it became necessary for Nancy to get a full-time job, both for extra income and for health benefits that we need. It was shortly after she started working that I noticed that she was beginning to show her age. I usually get home from fishing or hunting about the same time she gets home from work. Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says that she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts supper. I try not to yell, instead I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she finally does get supper on the table. She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. It is now not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after supper. I do what I can by reminding her several times each evening that they aren’t cleaning themselves. I know she appreciates this, as it does seem to help her get them done before she goes to bed. Now that she is older she seems to get tired so much more quickly. Our washer and dryer are in the basement. Sometimes she says she just can’t make another trip down those steps. I don’t make a big issue of this. As long as she finishes up the laundry the next evening I am willing to overlook it. Not only that, but unless I need something ironed to wear to the Monday lodge meeting or to Wednesday’s or Saturday’s poker club or to Tuesday’s or Thursday’s bowling or something like that, I will tell her to wait until the next evening to do the ironing. This gives her little more time to do some of those odds and ends things like shampooing the dog, vacuuming or dusting. Also, if I have had a really good day fishing, this allows her to gut and scale the fish at a more leisurely pace. Nancy is starting to complain a little occasionally. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. In spite of her complaining, I continue to try to offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she won’t have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn’t hurt her any, if you know what I mean. When doing simple jobs she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard. I try not to embarrass her when she needs these little extra rest breaks. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. I tell her that as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me and take her break by the hammock so she can talk with me until I fall asleep. I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Nancy on a daily basis. I’m not saying that the ability to show this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible. No one knows better than I do how frustrating women can become as they get older. However, guys, even if you just yell at your wife a little less often because of this article, I will consider that writing it was worthwhile. Signed, Bob Bob’s funeral was on Saturday, January 25th. Nancy was acquitted Monday, January 27th.

Hi Aiden - they are more likely lying - even you have got caught up in the collusion of it all by agreeing - you won't be the first and you won't be the last to ask this question and it's not always from 16 yr olds. You seem hell bent on being satisfied with just doing it the once then ? WHY ?? So ok get that first one out of the way after 30-45 mins then there are other things that can be done "in the time it takes you to recover" if you know what I mean - there are no rules to sex (except respect the word "no" regardless of yr age) so use your imagination and if it feels right go with it. Then when you are recovered and ready again it will automatically last longer. Why do men think that thay should just be able to go for an hour and a half "banging away" - we like other things you know and you banging away on top thinking you are satisfying her may just be having the opposite effect ! When it happens just say - that's round one started and now that allows me time to concentrate on you in the meantime. You may even get 2 or 3 in - now where' s the problem with that and all the mechanics of it all in the meantime hey ???? Have a good weekend but DON'T stress about it. Please don't let this eat away at you. Those "friends" will be fine - once they wake up !!

Do you wear condoms? That can slow things down. Experience and time will probably increase the time it lasts. You're definitely not the first guy to encounter this situation, given that you've just lost your virginity.

Practice masterbating and when you are about to finish just let go of it! Do that a few times before you allow yourself to finish and do it at least 4-5 times a week. That will help. Also, do kegals, where you squeeze the muscle in your body but its connected to your peewee. That will help you control yourself too.

Get a rabbit or other toys and have some fun. It does help in prolonging the fun. But if he is already finishing early at a young age he may want to see a urologist to see if theycan solve his problem for him. There are many things that can be wrong for years for a guy and them not know about it til it's too late.

The first come of the day is always unpredictable. Have your woman make you come via oral, then give her an orgasm through oral. By the time she stops you you should be ready to go again.

Well, do it few times. Like you'll cum fast the first time - but after that you'll be able to last longer, since the edge will go away already. Worked for me before, when I wasn't married -)

blow him first or make him cum before you do it or go slow and be on top. that might add a minute. i had the same problem with my guy. i told him i wish he lasted longer and i didn't want it if it was gonna be so short. now he cums and keeps going until he cums again. its so good(: